I apologize if I seem to have broken the conventions of this puzzle site by proposing a variation of a given problem. I (and "Charlie" I believe) are active on another problems site, where variants or extensions of problems are often proposed when the stated problem has been sufficiently answered (as this "Father and Son" has been). That site has well vetted weekly puzzles, tested for consistency and lack of ambiguity before posting; the interest there is not solely, or even primarily, in "getting the right answer" (or getting it first) but rather in discussions of methods of approach, and (after the initial problem is solved), in suggesting related matters, pending the next puzzle.
It would be of interest to me to see if anyone responds to the "Note" at the end of this original text, seeking derivations which do not rely on computer assistance. Why would it be better to have that discussion on another puzzle's thread?
My variant "challenge" kept all of the original conditions except that the mother be older than the father. The father could be 20 and the mother 14, from the pair (384, 16); or the father could be 45 and the mother 21, from the pair (1944, 81).
The phrase "older than me" is no doubt colloquial, even though a dubious example for one's son. May I merely plead guilty to pettifoggery?